Christmas Wishes



May the peace of two thousand Christmases,

Be with You this crazy year,

With a season free from worry

And a mind that holds no fear.

May you follow every dream

And never need a star,

May the lights dispel your darkness,

Be proud of who you are!

May the Santa of your childhood,

Set your spirit free

With happiness wrapped in hope

Beneath your Christmas Tree.

May the joy that Christmas brings,

Stay forever by your side,

May you always have the strength,

To take life in your stride.

May Christmas bring you closer

To those who own your heart,

For love provides the glue,

That will never let you part.

May you make a million memories,

That will never go away,

And may you regain your innocence,

That may have gone astray.

In our now uncertain world,

My Christmas wish for you,

Good Health, Love, and Laughter,

For these will see you through.

 

Seamus Kavanagh

Retired Teacher, Wicklow.

Final Farewell

On the 2nd of November 2021 I handed over the President’s chain of office to my successor Brian Mangan from Limerick, President for 2021/2022. The magnificent gold chain of office remained in its box from March 2020 to the 1st November 2021.There were no great events or celebrations during 2020. All very mundane. It couldn’t be otherwise with the conditions imposed by Covid-19 on social gatherings. All I could do as President of RTAI was to send out several messages expressing hope for a better future, encouraging resilience and solidarity. The organisation issued three excellent editions of Comhnasc in which we let our members know that we cared about their welfare and well being, that we valued their membership and friendship and that we wanted to stay connected to them.

There were moments of joy too during our isolation. Friends recovered from the virus which gave us hope but sadly too we lost loved ones which caused great pain. To those who suffered loss and bereavement I extended my sincere sympathy. In my final address to the Branch secretaries present in the Gresham Hotel I gave special mention to Matt Reville, Mick Finn and Joe Cashin who joined, the NEC with me in 2013. I thanked Billy Sheehan, General Secretary, Siobhán, Patricia and Mick Mangan in head office and members of the NEC.  I expressed my gratitude to Branch secretaries who are the backbone of RTAI for their dedication and commitment to RTAI affairs. Through their work the NEC keeps in touch with what is happening around the country. I was particularly grateful to them for the ease and generosity of spirit with which they embraced the technology we were obliged to use to connect with Branch members through Zoom meetings during the long lonely months of lockdown.

My parting words for members were:

Take care of yourself,

Go easy on yourself,

Be kind to yourself,

Eat well, sleep well, stay strong,

Lift your spirits, there are brighter days ahead.

Keep moving,

The more you move the better the mood.

Above all, Care and Connect and love each other.


Thus ended my year 2020 as President of RTAI



Mary Kyne



A Covid Wave


Cruel-hearted Covid arrived with its chest sticking out and pocketed my freedom. As I tiptoed around it, leafing through ravaged seasons, I strolled daily through a field alongside Merlin Park Nursing Home. Inside one of the windows facing this field, a lady sat nesting in her bed. One day, as I was passing, I waved at her, and she, with the tenderness of a mother waved back. With her gaze hooked onto mine, we both shared a harmonious smile. I joined my hands in prayer, and she did likewise. I blessed myself and made an open hearted gesture to suggest that we would pray for each other. She nodded her head in agreement. From that day on I anticipated our regular exchange, hoping she would be in her usual place as I passed.

One particular day, two ladies known to me, stood in the same field. They were ringing their dad who was residing in the nursing home hoping to see him through his window. They saw me wave at the lady so I told them our story. One of the ladies happened to know her and she told me that her name was Kathleen and that she often brought her buttons for her sewing projects.

That evening, I made a surprise attack on my beloved stash of buttons and wrote her an accompanying letter. I handed both the letter and the buttons into the nursing home while out for my stroll the following day. In the letter I told her who I was and how I learned her name and found out about her use of buttons. Afterwards, as I was passing the window, she looked out, and upon seeing me, started waving the letter in the air with great glee. It was a heart-warming moment.

A few weeks later, I called to the nursing home door to see if I could meet with Kathleen in person.  Moments later, she was brought to the door in a wheelchair and it felt like we had known each other a lifetime. She told me that she would love me to call to see her anytime and I will, when Covid gentles itself.



Anne Newell

Covid Memoir

During the lockdowns of the Covid 19 Pandemic, I travelled the world unencumbered by masks. I dismissed sanitisers and socially engaged with diverse nationalities.

In a leafy suburb of London, I encountered Alan Bennett.  As I was entering his driveway, I passed a scruffy old van. A feisty old woman stuck out her head and said “He’s not there, you can come into my van and wait.” There I met “The Lady in the Van” who entertained me with stimulating conversation until Alan returned.

Umberto Eco took me by the hand and led me through Mussolini’s Italy, while Elena Ferrante introduced me to a host of interesting families in a very different Italy.

“The Power of Geography” was explained to me by Tim Marshall when he brought me to places like Australia, The Middle East, North Africa etc. in order to update me on their current political situations.

Nearer to home, I learned “Thirty Two Words for Field” from Manchan Magan, who accompanied me around Ireland and introduced me to the lost words of the Irish landscape.

Ah, the cup of tea!
Through Sally Rooney, I met “Normal People” whose behaviour would not have been considered normal in my young days.

I was delighted to meet Doireann  Ni Ghriofa who informed me that her “Ghost in the Throat” was Eibhlin Dubh Ní Chonaill, wife of Art O'Laoghaire. I revisited the great Irish lament, “Caoineadh Art Uí Laoghaire” written by Eibhlin, his heartbroken wife.

I travelled to other places and encountered very interesting characters while I curled up on a chair with a cup of tea and a bar of chocolate and read to my heart’s content.

Thus the Retired Teachers Association Book Club transported me to other zones during this strange time of the Covid Pandemic. It lifted my spirits, honed my cerebral functions and provided me with human contact through the medium of Zoom.  

Thank you, Galway Retired Teachers Association!  
I really appreciate you!


Margaret Quigley

Sewing Scrubs during Lockdown.

 

Scrubs Tunic
In April 2020, during the first Covid 19 lockdown, there was a huge shortage of scrubs for frontline workers. They needed to be protected from the virus and also the patients under their care. A request came through the media  looking for volunteers to sew scrubs for them. After giving it some thought I decided, why not, and I put my name forward and volunteered.

 My sitting room, part of which was already used as an office, would now  become a sewing room. I got my sewing box out, oiled up my sewing machine, loaded my CD player with a few suitable CDs and I was ready to start.

I was supplied with a package for each outfit. It held: an instruction leaflet with a series of diagrams; pre-cut fabric pieces; tape for binding edges; plus a drawstring for the waist of the trousers. Each finished outfit would comprise of a trousers and a tunic.

Scrubs Trousers
As with any volunteering venture, you get as well as you give. When I went into my sewing room: I was engrossed in the project in hand; I was listening to the music while I worked; I felt that I was away from Covid and the virus updates of the media; I was in another world!

Time rolled on: the scrubs got made, they turned out well and were collected; the frontline workers were protected and the first lockdown ended. I was delighted I had helped in some small way to keep people safe and I also realised it was time to update my CD collection!

 

Eileen Treacy, July 2021.


Cooking with Aidan 2021

I was thrilled to get an email from the Retired Teachers Association in January informing me that a cooking and nutrition course was available to us on Zoom.  I love cooking and baking and have attended many courses over the years, none over Zoom mind you.  As we faced into another lockdown, I was eager to learn tasty and nutritious new recipes. We had the option of cooking along with Aidan or we could sit back and enjoy a cooking demonstration.  I opted for the latter.  

Aidan Deering is a first-class chef and nutritionist with a lovely easy relaxed style.  I learned more on the three courses with Aidan than I learned in all the other cookery courses combined.  All the ingredients Aidan uses are so wholesome, tasty and readily available. Aidan is a very patient teacher as he answered all our questions as he cooked while at the same time encouraging those who were cooking along.  Essential food techniques such as how to poach fish, how to create and store a spice mix were taught to us in a fun and engaging manner.  

Ingredients ready for Cookery
Demonstration on Zoom.
Photo provided by Aidan Deering.

The first recipes on the twenty seventh of January were for a roast red pepper soup: delicious and a lovely alternative to my butternut squash soup; a Mediterranean cheese and olive bake, so easy to cook and ready in fifteen minutes; and finally stuffed peppers with crispy chicken: a recipe that has now become one of my weekly recipes.  I did not have long to wait for our second class which took place on the tenth of February.  The recipes I now love to cook are nutritious, delicious wholemeal pancakes with raspberries, blackberries and crème fraîche, and a crunchy salmon and broccoli bake with poached fish and pasta.  Our last zoom course was a cookery demonstration for us all which included a healthy seed salad dressing, a warm orange and lemon chicken with chorizo summer salad, coconut prawns with garlic crème fraîche and a Mexican bean burger with purple coleslaw and homemade red onion chutney.  It was such a treat to sit back and enjoy a wonderful masterclass demonstration.  

I now have become much more adventurous in my cooking, and I love the flavoursome tasty recipes that Aidan taught us.  I look forward to having more zoom lessons or even better to attend classes in person in the not-too-distant future. 

   

Edel Linnane, July 2021.


Tribute to Patricia Burke Brogan

Taken from the "Women Who Dared" publication as part of the Tuam Herald celebration of International Women's Day 2021.  Michael D. Higgins, President of Ireland, pays tribute to Patricia Burke Brogan.

On International Women's Day we have a special opportunity to celebrate acts of courage and determination by women who have played an extraordinary role in the history of their countries and communities. They are women who have overcome adversity, broken down barriers, agitated for justice and righteously raged against inhumanity and discrimination; women who have refused to avert their gaze from systems and actions that are unjust, patriarchal, authoritarian and excluding.

President Michael D. Higgins

Photo provided by Áras an Uachtaráin
This year as we once again pay tribute to those who have demonstrated courage and determination in their pursuit of justice and equality for women we celebrate in particular those women who persevered in uncovering truths, and evasions around the violation of the fundamental rights of so many in Ireland by the State, a Church and by a complying society — actions of commission and omission — that contradicted the values of any real republic built, as it should be, on equal rights of citizens, care, true freedom, solidarity and compassion. Earlier this year the publication of the final report from the Mother and Baby Homes Commission of Investigation, though far from a conclusion on such issues, may be a step on the journey towards an understanding of what occurred in an Ireland that so badly failed tens of thousands of young women and their children.

The Commission was, of course, established following, in particular, the revelations by historian Catherine Corless about the deaths and burials of hundreds of children on the former mother and baby home site here in Tuam. Catherine has demonstrated laudable courage and perseverance in her pursuit of historical and moral truth, and as a society we owe her an enormous debt of gratitude.

May I also take this opportunity to express my appreciation of all those who have worked tirelessly, and with courageous vision, in quest of justice for the vulnerable women and children abandoned, forsaken, and abused by a society that had come to privilege property over life, and by a version of respect that was misogynistic, turning, for the most part, a blind eye to the irresponsibility of natural fathers, while it claimed to be a truly democratic republic. Included among that group is the writer and artist Patricia Burke Brogan and I am delighted to have been asked to pay tribute to her on this International Women's Day.

It was on 14th February 1992, in a converted garage near Galway's Spanish Arch, that Irish society began the process of throwing its unflinching gaze on a most dark chapter of our nation's history.

The occasion was the premiere of Patricia Burke Brogan's seismic play 'Eclipsed', which courageously brought to life the stories of the women abandoned, rejected and hidden by their families, their church and their fellow citizens in the now infamous Magdalene laundries.

Patricia was one of the first people I met when I came to Galway in 1961. We both were, with John Hoskin, founding members of a discussion group, Tuairim. My wife Sabina and I have had the pleasure of calling Patricia Burke Brogan a friend for many years now. She has been a practitioner as well as an advocate for all of the arts, as artist and teacher. We have, across those years, admired and been inspired by the way she has both calmly and courageously shone a light into some very dark corners of our shared past. In doing so, Patricia has always demonstrated a profound understanding of the importance of wrestling with the legacy of the past in ways that allow us to move forward towards a future not weighed down by animosity, hurt and hostility.

Her work does not seek to provoke hatred, bitterness or blame, but to shatter the secrecy, denial and passive complicity that enables the rejection of truth, the whitewashing of history and does so in the full knowledge of the possibility of that history repeating itself.

By forcing us to face and contemplate that which for some members of a younger generation may seem so unbelievable, but is also such an important part of our recently lived past, Patricia forced us to reflect on a great failure of shared humanity; a failure that not only led to the taking of actions that were wrong, but to the failure to take actions of revelation, exposure and acknowledgement that were right and necessary and that might break the great silence around the women incarcerated in the Magdalene laundries.

As a young novice in mid-20th century Ireland, Patricia was a witness to the reality of the Magdalene Laundries. Describing what she saw as `Dante's inferno', she shared that reality through her great gift for writing, and by doing so brought us deep into the individual stories that are such a critical part of our shared history and our shared humanity. Having chosen convent life in order to help those who were vulnerable, she eventually found a different way to carry the torch of light into lives darkened and diminished by intolerance and prejudice. When Patricia first met the women of the Magdalene laundries in the Summer of 1963, she chose not to regard them as 'penitents' or 'outcasts' but as fellow women with whom she wished to walk in solidarity. Across the decades she has continued to journey alongside those women, ensuring their stories are told to our own and future generations, their children remembered, their voices heard.

Patricia is, today, recognised and indeed renowned for that strong sense of social justice. Those of us fortunate to know her are also familiar with her wit and generosity, her sense of humour, her quiet determination. As a talented poet, artist, novelist and playwright she has contributed profoundly to the cultural life of our nation and to the viable democracy contained within the cultural space. As with all good artists, she uses her gifts to challenge us and enrich the wider public discourse, drawing on enormous wells of inner courage to do so.

For let us not forget that it took great artistic courage in the 1980s to tackle a subject that spoke so loudly of the terrible inhumanity inflicted on those who were so vulnerable by the agencies of the State and a misogynistic Church, and by many society forces who were part of this inhumanity or who silently colluded by looking the other way. There were some exceptional writers of course, who had the courage of revelation. I think of Padraic O'Conaire's story 'Nora Mhar cais Bhig'.

Sabina Higgins with Patricia Burke Brogan at the launch of her book, Memoir with Grykes and Turloughs, at the Galway Education Centre on July 1st  2014. The book was officially launched by Sabina.

Photo: Joe O'Shaughnessy



Her work was not always welcome within that society, as Sabina and I can attest, and theatre after theatre had rejected 'Eclipsed' as being too controversial for its audiences before fledgling theatre company Punchbag began auditioning for the all-female cast that would bring to life the atrocity of the Magdalene laundries.

I was in the audience in Spanish Arch on that February evening almost thirty years ago when Eclipsed premiered to a shocked and electrified audience. As the play drew to a close and the cast took their bows, as we rose to our feet, we were aware perhaps of a social paradigm shift beginning to stir in the highly charged air of the theatre that night.

On this International Women's Day it is a privilege to have the opportunity to pay tribute to Patricia Burke Brogan, who has helped force reluctant members of an Irish Republic to face the truth of what prevailed in the Magdalene laundries.

I thank her for the solidarity, understanding and support she has offered to the women whom Ireland failed; for respecting thier dignity, and for drawing attention to the many stories that together articulate the ordeal of the Magdalene women. As a society we can be grateful to Patricia for using her visual, lyrical and dramatic gifts to  help shape a better future for the women of Ireland and in doing so, for us all. 

Words of thanks to Ms Mary Kyne, President RTAI, from Billy Sheehan, General Secretary RTAI.

This year a special word of thanks is due to our Association President Ms Mary Kyne.

At the start of her year as president and long before COVID-19 struck, she chose as her motto Care and Connect, reflecting her commitment to reaching out to lonely, isolated and vulnerable members.

At the time she would also have anticipated a busy year travelling to meet members at branch meetings throughout the country.

Although Mary was confined to her home in Oughterard during her year as President, she managed to fulfil her commitment to connect with members. 

From the outset of the pandemic Mary reached out to members with messages of support, solidarity and resilience. These messages brought great hope, encouragement and comfort to many.

The RTAI has been extremely lucky to have had an extraordinary President in this unprecedented year.

Mary's term as a member of the NEC concludes at the end of Convention 2021. We are grateful to her for her service to the Associationover many years at local and national level.

President's Address to RTAI Convention 2021


A Dhaoine Uaisle,

Ní féidir liom bheith libh go fisicúil ach táim buíoch bheith libh le cabhair on idir líne.

2020/21 has been a challenging, unprecedented Presidential Year. My aspirations for the year when I took up office on March 3rd 2020 was to Care and Connect with members in a meaningful way but with the arrival of Covid-19 my good intentions changed drastically. Caring and connecting took on a totally different meaning. Over 70’s were obliged to isolate within our own homes while others had to maintain 2meters distance apart.

Yes, I missed opportunities to be physically present at Branch gatherings, travelling abroad with RTAI Galway members and other joyous events and celebrations. Yet as a “Virtual President” I managed through modern technology to stay connected by text, email, face-time, phone and Zoom meetings. While we were apart yet we were together and connected spiritually as I placed a light in my window every night since March 2020 for the intentions of family, friends, and RTAI members. My chain of office stayed in its box, in isolation too for the whole year.

I’m conscious too of members who have been bereaved and suffered the loss of loved ones through the virus and other illnesses and are now feeling alone, isolated and disconnected without the support of traditional Irish wakes, funerals and human contact at this time. I extend to them and their families my sincere sympathy. Suaimhneas síoraí dóibh go léir atá imithe ar shlí na fírinne.

I sent out through Comhnasc and the support of the 32 Branch Secretaries messages of hope, solidarity and resilience letting members know that RTAI as an organisation hadn’t forgotten you our members in your hour of need. Our Christmas Card that sent good wishes was well received. Members realised that their membership was valued. Ar scáth a chéile a mhaireann na daoine. We are grateful to the members who brought joy to our hearts through their uplifting prose and poetry based on their experiences during ‘lockdown’.

Now more than ever we need each other. There is no going back to reality. Draw on your reserve of resilience as there is light at the end of the tunnel. A new chapter with members being vaccinated has opened up in our lives. May the months ahead give you courage, strength, confidence, patience, self-love and inner peace. May the days ahead bring you hope, love, a smile to your face, laughter and joy in your heart. When this time of uncertainty passes – and it will pass - we will be ready as an association to Care and Connect in a meaningful way to make this world a better place for all mankind. In the meantime, let us live life and treasure the small wonders that everyday brings.

This day last week, I had the opportunity of addressing the 153rd INTO Annual Congress – also online. I gave delegates an update on some important developments in relation to pensions that occurred in the past 12 months. I also acknowledged the work of the INTO in progressing these issues and we I expressed our gratitude for the trojan work the organisation does on our behalf.

I gave a special mention to Noel Ward who is retiring at the end of the summer. For many years Noel has been our key contact person in the INTO. He has always been accessible to us and shows a genuine interest in the welfare of retired INTO members. We are grateful for his support and wish him well in his retirement.

Noel is not with us today, but he has agreed to be with us when we next meet so that we can say goodbye to him in person.

Deirdre O’Connor is the new INTO Deputy General Secretary. We look forward to working with Deirdre and we wish her well in her new role.

Caithfidh mé a rá in aineoin gach a tharla i rith na bliana gur bhain mé sult agus taitneamh as mo bhlian mar Uachtarán. Mo mhíle buíochas do chuile dhuine a cabhraigh liom Runaí Ginearálta Billy Sheehan Siobhán agus Patricia san oifig, runaí na Brainse agus go mór mór mo chairde dhíl san NEC.


Mar fhocail scor, fágaim an beannacht seo libh.

Go mairidh sibh go sonascah,

Go soilbhir is go sámh,

Go raibh beannacht Dé is Muire libh,

A chóiche is go brách.


April 2021   Mary Kyne

President RTAI, Mary Kyne's Address to INTO 2021 Annual Congress

Tá athás orm mar Uachtarán Cumann Scortha Múinteóirí na hÉireann labhairt libh inniu ag an 153 Comhdháil Bliantúil INTO. Bhí mé páirteach i gnóthai INTO ó 1964 mar Chathaoirleach Craobh na Gaillimhe agus ina dhiaidh sin mar Chathaoirleach ar Cheantar V1.

Today I bring you greetings from your retired colleagues and former members of INTO.

I joined the Dublin INTO Branch in 1964 when meetings were held in Club na Múinteoirí. As a delegate from Galway, I attended over 30 Congresses with my late husband Frank who was also a teacher. We enjoyed Congress during those halcyon days when in addition to the formal business of Congress we also played golf, Bridge, attended table-quizes, danced and sang into the early hours of the morning.


I addressed Congress on several occasions on behalf of the Galway branch. I remember in particular in the early 90’s. campaigning to secure a second teacher for one teacher schools. I taught for 24 years in a one teacher school. It was pressure from the INTO, with the support of Congress delegates that eventually secured the appointment of a second teacher.


The RTAI was founded in 1951/52 and now has over 10,300 members in a network of 32 branches. It is a strong and vibrant Association which focuses on:

  • Protecting Pensions
  • Securing benefits and facilities for members.
  • Providing information and advice
  • Maintaining strong links with the INTO and with other groups that advocate on behalf of retired workers;
  • Supporting a broad range of social activities and networking working opportunities for members

As our Association was founded to protect the dignity of retired teachers by working to protect pensions, I would like to highlight 3 significant milestones that were achieved in 2020:

1 Jan 2020 finally brought an end to the Public Service Pension Reduction – an additional tax on public service retirees introduced on 1 January 2011. The phasing out of this levy commenced in 2016, but it was only in January of 2020 that it was finally phased out. At its peak, this levy generated €135 million for the Exchequer!

1 October 2020 was also a significant day for public service retirees. All our members saw an increase in their gross pensions on that day. For most the increase was very modest. However, it was the first increase in over 12 years that applied across the board to all retirees. (The previous PSSA increases were only applied to the more recently retired). The last pension increase that applied to all retirees was 1 October 2008.

The public service pay deal “Building Momentum” which concluded last December, brings further optimism for retirees as the two pay increases due on 1 Oct 2021 and on 1 October 2022 will also apply to retired teachers.

We welcome the confirmation that parity is secured for now. But this guarantee only lasts until the end of this pay agreement in 2022. We would urge the CEC to ensure that any follow-on public-sector agreement will also maintain the link between pay and pensions.

We will also have a keen interest on how any increases arising from the sectoral bargaining fund will impact on pensions.


I would like to acknowledge the work of the INTO in progressing these issues and we are grateful for the trojan work the organisation does on our behalf.

On this occasion I would like to give a special mention to Noel Ward. For many years Noel has been our key contact person with INTO. He has always been accessible to us and shows a genuine interest in the welfare of retired INTO members. We are grateful for his support and wish him well in his retirement. We look forward to working with Deirdre and we wish her well in her new role.


Táim fíor bhuíoch diobh ligint dom labhairt libh inniu. Ghuím rath agus tairbhe ar bhur díospóireachtaí comhdhála.

You are not alone

When silence breaks with the church bell's tone,

And in your pain seem all alone,

When the dark of night turns to endless day

When there is nothing left to say

You Are Not Alone!

When you look  for words that will not come,

When the spirit's weary and the body numb,

When your head’s in turmoil and wracked with pain,

And you search for comfort but search in vain,

You Are Not Alone.

When the world continues at breakneck pace,

And you feel no part of the human race,

When a million questions fill your mind,

But not an answer can you find,

You Are Not Alone

We'll be there when you can feel,

The warm embrace of arms so real,

We'll be there at the sickness' end,

To help a fragile heart to mend

You Are Not Alone

Seamus Kavanagh. March 2021

Aibreán 2021 Living in Covid Times

Dear members of the Wicklow/ Galway Branches

Le déanaí, when I am rambling in the woods, and I talk with fellow walkers the conversation quickly turns to Covid. I am asked if I had been vaccinated yet against Covid 19. When I reply in the negative people then ask which age group is being vaccinated now. Everyone is worried about the high number of new cases each day and also the number of deaths from Covid 19. They are all looking for an assurance that they will be vaccinated soon. I have just now got my vaccination appointment for the first week in April. Halleluiah.

Many within our RTAI group have been affected to some degree by Covid. Firstly there is a large group of people who have family members living more than 5Kms from home who are unable to visit them. Parents and grandparents have missed family interactions. They miss the visiting and holidaying with them. There is a great sense of loss in not being able to see grandchildren and hug them or share in the many glorious moments of their growing up.Children living abroad have been unable to come home on holidays. They cannot visit family members in hospital. Likewise, they cannot attend restricted family weddings, baptisms, confirmations.

This is equally sad for people living at home because of restrictions on travel and numbers allowed at funerals. It is so sad, in these pandemic times, that people cannot grieve properly with the support of family, friends and neighbours. There is a time to grieve and there should be some more humanity shown at this sad time for families and close friends of the deceased. When this epidemic eventually goes away there will be a lot of bereavement counselling needed.

There are many means by which people handle bereavement .I remember when a teaching colleague and neighbour of mine died some years ago. Her husband planted a tree in the centre green for our small community. As we see that tree, we remember her. Her memory lives on for the family and neighbours.

Tá mórán daoine ag imirt “cat and mouse” with Covid trying to stay clear of it. We had two covid positive cases in the extended family group. Fortunately, these were mild cases, and we were all so grateful for this. It still caused some upheaval for family members because of the necessary self- isolating and avoidance procedures.

I also meet people who are anxiously waiting to restart doing the things that were a meaningful part of their lives pre lockdown. They really miss the regular exercise and the social interaction they had in their pastimes. Many people are really missing meeting friends, the meals out, the visit to the pub, cups of coffee and socialising in restaurants and hotels. So am I.

I know quite a few of my walking companions who went to Spain or Portugal for two months every year since their retirement and they really miss it. They tell me that it was so good for their physical and mental health. This is on the lower rung of the losses for me.

There is a term called “Disenfranchised Grief” coined by Kenneth J Doka in the 1980s. He is the author of “Grief is a journey, “Finding Your Path Through Loss”. This term could, be applied to some of the lesser losses experienced by some people I mentioned above. It is worth a GOOGLE search.

I have sympathy for college students. I know quite a few of them and they are being deprived of the collegiality and buzz of college life. They have missed out on social and cultural events. They have missed out on all the sporting events and many opportunities to meet their soulmate for life. This is tough and cannot be replicated for any of them. College life was always a fulfilling and enriching experience full of moments of joy and adventure. It played such a huge part in the growing up and maturing process for all of us. Covid 19 has stripped them of some of this life.

Many businesses are under severe pressure having been closed for so long and many may not survive. Other business premises have adapted well. They have set up virtual shops and have their own websites and changed to some online shopping or to click and collect or click and deliver. This a new experience for all of us and I must admit I enjoy the new shopping experience. I will continue using it to some extent post pandemic.

If there is one lesson, we have learned from Covid 19 it is that we are not alone. There are so many people around us experiencing the same stress, loneliness and anxieties. We must remember that there is so much help and support available.

Our own Seamus Kavanagh put that so well in his latest poem, “ You are not alone” We must do what we can to help ourselves. There is no need to suffer in silence. Share your sorrows, worries, joys and hopes.

When I sent out the March 2020 newsletter one member sent me the following old proverb“ Níl idir saibhreas agus bochtanas ach bliain”. At the end of the year, we are all poorer in some ways as a result of lockdowns. It is time now to look on the positive side and see that there is more hope there for all of us with the arrival of the vaccines.

Séamus Kavanagh's Poetry

I have published a selection of some of Séamus Kavanagh's poetry composed during the “Lockdown” of the 2020/2021 pandemic. Séamus is a member of the Wicklow Branch and you may view his writings under the Wicklow Branch website.

A Year of Hope

2021 A Year of Hope

As we turn the calendar's last page,

As the bells ring out so clear,

No looking back, No pondering,

Let Hope ring in the year

There's a virgin page to write on,

There's stories still untold,

There's hi-jinks and new adventures

In lives not now on hold.

There's an open road with no restraint,

Where freedom's not in miles,

No apps to set the boundaries,

No facts, No masks, No files

There's shopping sprees and dining out,

There is wine and there is beer,

There's "Pontificating" in the bar,

There's handshakes without fear.

There's walking ,talking, sharing,

When we get to meet again,

There's BBQs and picnics,

There's dancing in the rain!

There's photos to be taken,

Memories to be made,

And locked inside each heart,

From where they'll never fade.

There's holidays to plan,

There's cocktails in the sun,

There's loungers and sun tanning,

As we catch up on so much fun.

There'll be open doors of welcome,

There for all to see

There'll be open arms encircling

Our loved ones, now we're free.

Let us look to the future,

There is no future in the past,

And a world now free of virus,

And a freedom that will last.


5km of Hope

Hedge parsley formed  " A Guard of Honour"

On each side of the road, 

As cocooning chains were loosened,

On my 5km of hope. 

Each hedgerow was a pageant,

Of flowers I'd long forgot,

As I recalled the childhood story,

Of how God named the "forget-me- not"

Gorse, like golden jigsaw pieces,

Dotted a landscape serene,

While every field was smartly dressed,

In a coat of sparkling green.

Somewhere in the "Hollow"

I heard the cuckoo call,

And though summers chase each other,

It doesn't change at all.

From a leafy branch of a chestnut tree

Came music, pure ,sublime

As a blackbird sang for all to hear,

A song as old as time.

I heard the sound of tractors,

And children at their play,

And realised how much I'd missed

The sounds of every day.

With a lighter heart I turned for home,

My spirits much relieved,

For now I knew there's always hope,

For those that still believe.



The Phone Call

The phone bell breaks the silence,

And echoes down the hall.

He makes it from the kitchen

In time to take the call.

Some days he is silent,

Lost in a memory,

As he remembers other days,

And the way things used to be.

Some days he feels the love,

Coming down the line

"Hi dad just checking how you're doing?"

And those days he feels fine!

Some days are filled with questions,

Of "When" and "Where" and "How"

Of friends of other days,

And wonders "Where are they now?"

Some days are filled with energy,

And he hasn't aged at all,

For there's trampolines and somersaults,

That's when the grandkids call!

Some days he "catches up"

On stories new and old

All the "comings" and the "goings!”

And what will the future hold?

And though the call is ending,

He's no longer on his own

His loneliness has lifted 

With the voice upon the phone.

So never under estimate a phone call,

Or the solace it may bring,

For the highlight of the day

May be the phone bell's ring.

We've got to & Grandad can you tell me?

We've got to

We've got to stand six feet apart,

Until this thing is done,

But we've got to stand together

To show that we are one.

We've got to wash the hands 

With hand gel or with soap,

We've got to shop with patience,

Take our time behind the rope.

We've got to remain calm,

When there's panic in the air,

We've got to look out for those around us,

And show that we still care.

We've got to stop and smell the flowers,

See the miracles of Spring,

The primrose and the daffodil,

And hear the blackbird sing.

We've got to say a prayer

Even though it's been a while.

But God is not like you or I,

He doesn't keep a file.

We've got to believe in happy endings,

That this will end quite soon

And that we'll emerge much stronger,

From our home made cocoon!

We've got to plan a party,

When all this "craic" is o'er

When we'll look at things quite differently,

And appreciate things so much more.



Grandad can you tell me?

Grandad when you were young 

Were you ever bold?

And did you always do

What you were told?

Grandad do you see the moon?

Could we get there in a car?

And on a starry night 

Who puts the light in every star?

Is there a fire inside the sun?

Will it ever lose its light?

And grandad is it true

That cats can see at night?

How does a river start

What makes its waters flow?

How do leaves get their leaves?

What makes the grasses grow?

How do my eyes stay closed

When I'm asleep in bed?

Why do hairs grow in your nose

And not upon your head?

Grandad how do you make a wrinkle

'Cos mine keep going away

And you can make a new one

Nearly every day!

What makes the thunder

When it crashes I'm afraid

And grandad can you tell me 

How is lightning made?

Who puts the smell in all the flowers

How do nettles sting?

And grandad can you tell me

Who taught the birds to sing?

Have you ever seen a leprechaun?

Does he have a pot of gold?

And grandad can you remember 

The day that you got old?


Grandad can I tell you

How much I love you?

I love you as big as all the world,

I really really do!


x

Care & Connect - Light & Shade

“Anois teacht an Earraigh beidh an lá dul chun síneadh

Is tar éis na féile Bríde ardóidh mé mo sheol”

Bí dóchasach.

I do realise that it was a real setback when the 3rd lockdown came. Many of you have become anxious, fearful, enduring mood swings and depression, which is understandable. It is important to acknowledge our worries and to talk about them and at the same time not to dwell on them too long. We must try to have courage and hope going forward. Let us not lose heart now.


Amanda Gorman in her inspiring poem, “The Hill we Climb” which she eloquently recited at President Joe Biden’s inauguration posed the question, “Can we find light in this ever ending shade”? Presently we are experiencing the shade in every aspect of everyday living. But can we find the light in this ever ending shade? Is féidir linn.

Hope and love becomes our inspiration. We are not on our own. In the midst of darkness the Lord is with us. Let us care and connect and move forward together with a spring in our step, joy in our hearts and embrace the new world we find ourselves in. We will find the light in the shade. Cling to what is good and true. We need courage and strength for what lies ahead. The darkest hour is just before the dawn. The Lord will not abandon us but walks beside us because he loves us. Stand firm. Is treise muid le chéile. Keep active. Keep steady. Keep strong. Indoors and out. The more you move the better the mood.


What should I do if I am having a bad day you might ask?

Frances Weir, Occupational Therapist says: “Keep your daily routine, stay active, mind your mood, switch off and stay connected are all great strategies to keep well during this difficult time.” Maybe it is better to look life in phases each with something new to offer so that we are always looking forward to future possibilities rather than looking back to the last memory. Let us practise gratitude for the good things that happen each day. Write them down if it helps. Gratitude is a remedy for anger. Don’t strive for perfection, be patient and kind to yourself. Don’t lean too heavily into the future as we can overlook the joy of today. All life is precious. You can remember someone when you don’t have the strength to help them in another way. Sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold, an ear to listen and a heart to understand. When you feel low do something to lift your spirits.

Let us care and connect through acts of kindness and compassion. Embrace those who have lost loved ones, assist those who are concerned about family and friends. Embrace those close to you who are in distress and help them to have courage and hope for what lies ahead.


“Bí ciallmhar i gconaí maidir leis an mbealach is fearr le tú féin a choinneáil sábháilte, is cuma cá bhfuil tú, ceard atá ar siúl agat nó cé atá in éineacht leat.”


As the late Seamus Heaney said,

“If we winter this out we can summer anywhere.

Mary Kyne,

Eanair 2021